Here’s the problem with dealing with the co-existence of good and bad: we weren’t really wired to do this well. We weren’t designed to live in the world as it is now, we were designed to live in Eden, where everything is good. The basic problem is that we were created with this deep awareness of the ideal that is lost. And we have a gap between our ideal self and our real self, and the ideal ‘you’ and the real ‘you.’ And everything is against this backdrop of what it ought to be. Very immature personalities who haven’t developed the capacity to integrate may deny one or the other, good or bad, and then they split. Watch as Dr. Cloud explains how mature individuals live in a world and reality that integrates both good and bad.