There’s a second aspect of being created in the image of God besides bonding, which is that when we bond, we can’t lose the separateness of the individual. That’s the ultimate paradox of the created order, in that God is one, but He is also three, The Trinity. God has called us to be bonded to, but separate from, the people we love. That’s where we get into boundaries, where we define the difference between ‘me’ and ‘you.’ In this clip, Dr. Cloud teaches us that our differences are a good thing because they provide strength, and how to protect against losing that strength.